“They were to observe them as days of feasting and merrymaking, and as an occasion for sending gifts to one another and presents to the poor” — Esther 9:22
Purim, one of the most joyous holidays on the Jewish calendar, is celebrated with festive meals, fun costumes, acts of kindness, and different types of charity, including the mitzvah of Matanot L’evyonim — giving to those in need. Another key tradition of Purim is Mishloach Manot, the giving of food packages to friends and loved ones. This meaningful mitzvah reflects the holiday’s spirit of unity, generosity, and celebration.
What Is Mishloach Manot
Mishloach Manot serves multiple purposes. Primarily, it ensures that everyone, regardless of personal means, has access to food for the festive Purim meal. Giving Mishloach Manot is also a tangible expression of gratitude and joy for the miracles commemorated on this holiday.
There is also a deeper meaning to Mishloach Manot. Purim commemorates the salvation of the Jewish people from Haman’s plot, as detailed in the Book of Esther. Some interpret the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot as a direct response to Haman’s claim that the Jews were “scattered and divided.” By exchanging gifts, Jews demonstrate unity and solidarity.
Who Is Mishloach Manot given to?
Mishloach Manot is traditionally given to friends, family, neighbors, and anyone with whom you have a relationship. In Israel, it is a common practice to send Mishloach Manot to Israel Defense Forces (IDF) soldiers. While it is often the soldiers’ families who send these gifts, it is also customary for children and other civilians to send Mishloach Manot to unrelated soldiers. This act is done as a gesture of support and appreciation, as well as to show solidarity with the IDF. This is especially meaningful during times of conflict, as it helps boost morale and express gratitude for their service. Many synagogues also streamline the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot by organizing fundraisers. Participants pay a fee, which funds packages sent to each family.
The Laws of Giving Mishloach Manot
- Who needs to give: Mishloach Manot is a mitzvah that applies to all Jewish adults. Even the needy must give the gift of Mishloach Manot, even if they are just exchanging with each other.
- Timing: To fulfill the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot, it must be given during the day of Purim, and not the night before or after. Ideally, it should be delivered after the Megillah reading, once the Shehecheyanu blessing has been recited.
- What type of food: Giving Mishloach Manot is a way to express gratitude and celebrate the joy of Purim. For this reason, Mishloach Manot often includes foods that are considered joyous or bring blessing to the recipient. These typically include baked goods like hamantaschen, fruits, beverages such as wine or juice, and treats such as chocolates, candies, and nuts. Additionally, the gift must include a minimum of two different types of items.
- Recipient: Mishloach Manot should be given to at least one person. However, it’s customary to share with multiple individuals to enhance the festive spirit.
- Delivery: While Judaism emphasizes the value of giving charity anonymously, this gift should come from you, but be delivered by a third party. Involving another person highlights the value of creating bonds. Many people choose to have children do this task, imparting on them the importance of charitable giving.
Make a Difference This Purim
Celebrate Purim in 2025 by giving not only to your friends but also to those in need. Support Colel Chabad’s Mishloach Manot campaign to deliver holiday packages to struggling families and individuals. You can also choose to send Mishloach Manot to an IDF soldier (or, even sponsor a Purim barbecue on a base!) Donate now to share the joy of Purim with those who need it most.